There is now a skyrocketing number of guess what? Male suicides (as a man has no money to offer in remarriage, he has no value), and divorces in general. As many women who were forced to marry in order to leave the home decide to get out from their marriage (in some cases from a bad marriage, in some cases from a good marriage, and in some cases, the marriage was fine and they just wanted the money).
Now women are being given the incentive to blowout their husband WITH NO REASON NEEDED, and walk away. Hopefully no one EVEN CONSIDERS marrying these women in the future....
Remember INDIA IS STILL A VERY POOR COUNTRY. People do things just to survive. If you REALLY want to go from poor to rich or even middle class, YOU PROBABLY NEED TO GET YOUR HANDS DIRTY.
It used to be women married IN ORDER TO move up in lifestyle or class. This had its downsides BUT IT ENCOURAGED MARRIAGE AND FAMILIES!!! Is that SO AWFUL?
Which is worse? Providing incentives to marry or WHAT THEY HAVE TURNED TO: PROVIDING INCENTIVES FOR DIVORCE?
http://www.498a.org/
Why supreme court calls 498a as "Legal Terrorism"?
25 reasons “Why IPC 498A is Anti-Social?”
1 It is handled under the Criminal law for marriage related matters and not under Civil Laws.
2 Non-bailable warrant does not require proof before arrest. No investigation necessary. This exposes the vulnerability of the accused taking away their basic human rights.
3 Even those who were not part of the 'day-to-day' family life could be named and arrested on one complaint, which can also include pregnant women and children.
4 Accused is presumed guilty until proven innocent. No where in the world it is so.
5 Gifts are sometimes misunderstood as dowry. Who decides that the gift exchanged were 'gifts or dowry'?
6 It is non-compoundable which means that the complaint can’t be taken back that hinders any scope of reconciliation between the couple.
7 After a man is accused of 498A, he will not take his wife back later.
8 Old parents who lived with dignity and respect have to live with the stigma of harassing their daughter-in-law for the rest of their lives.
9 Groom’s relatives don’t find a suitable bride after they are accused under 498A
10 Most of the cases are filed because the husband refuses to throw his parents out of the house at the wife’s demands.
11 Husband’s job is at risk when he is accused under 498A who could even be the only breadwinner of the family.
12 The health of the old parents dangerously deteriorates after they are arrested in a 498A case.
13 Some even commit suicide for not able to withstand the depression and frustration of been falsely accused.
14 Old parents after 498a case become very apprehensive and advice their son not to marry again.
15 The family ends up paying a very high price to settle the case, the money that was saved for the parent’s health.
16 Most often the lawyers tend to take the family for a ride to extract as much money as possible.
17 The possibility of a woman over-reacting on a trivial matter in the family is never considered as a reason of complaint.
18 A woman tries to get divorce proceedings faster by filing a 498a case even if no dowry was demanded.
19 The witnesses (neighbors) tend to support the woman for not getting into a police case. They even fear of been accused by the woman if they don’t support the woman.
20 Some women marries an NRI and slaps a 498A case only to extort large sum of money
21 Even after knowing that the complaint can be false, police tend to support the woman and asks the man to settle the case with a financial compensation.
22 The case can easily linger in the court for years and only the groom’s family has to pay the price.
23 498A case can be filed even after the divorce, which only means that the accuser wants to demand money legally apart from maintenance.
24 There is no prohibition clause in the 498A law that would stop women to misuse it.
25 It is nearly impossible to file a case of defamation on the accuser because the police will not register the case and it would be hard to prove it.
2 Non-bailable warrant does not require proof before arrest. No investigation necessary. This exposes the vulnerability of the accused taking away their basic human rights.
3 Even those who were not part of the 'day-to-day' family life could be named and arrested on one complaint, which can also include pregnant women and children.
4 Accused is presumed guilty until proven innocent. No where in the world it is so.
5 Gifts are sometimes misunderstood as dowry. Who decides that the gift exchanged were 'gifts or dowry'?
6 It is non-compoundable which means that the complaint can’t be taken back that hinders any scope of reconciliation between the couple.
7 After a man is accused of 498A, he will not take his wife back later.
8 Old parents who lived with dignity and respect have to live with the stigma of harassing their daughter-in-law for the rest of their lives.
9 Groom’s relatives don’t find a suitable bride after they are accused under 498A
10 Most of the cases are filed because the husband refuses to throw his parents out of the house at the wife’s demands.
11 Husband’s job is at risk when he is accused under 498A who could even be the only breadwinner of the family.
12 The health of the old parents dangerously deteriorates after they are arrested in a 498A case.
13 Some even commit suicide for not able to withstand the depression and frustration of been falsely accused.
14 Old parents after 498a case become very apprehensive and advice their son not to marry again.
15 The family ends up paying a very high price to settle the case, the money that was saved for the parent’s health.
16 Most often the lawyers tend to take the family for a ride to extract as much money as possible.
17 The possibility of a woman over-reacting on a trivial matter in the family is never considered as a reason of complaint.
18 A woman tries to get divorce proceedings faster by filing a 498a case even if no dowry was demanded.
19 The witnesses (neighbors) tend to support the woman for not getting into a police case. They even fear of been accused by the woman if they don’t support the woman.
20 Some women marries an NRI and slaps a 498A case only to extort large sum of money
21 Even after knowing that the complaint can be false, police tend to support the woman and asks the man to settle the case with a financial compensation.
22 The case can easily linger in the court for years and only the groom’s family has to pay the price.
23 498A case can be filed even after the divorce, which only means that the accuser wants to demand money legally apart from maintenance.
24 There is no prohibition clause in the 498A law that would stop women to misuse it.
25 It is nearly impossible to file a case of defamation on the accuser because the police will not register the case and it would be hard to prove it.
Note :The existence of dowry deaths in the rural areas is not the reason for lenient laws as understood by women organizations. The law is already unfair, biased and inapplicable. The true reason for dowry deaths in rural areas is poverty and under-developed civilization. Dowry deaths still flourishing in the rural areas and misuse of 498a law is flourishing in the urban areas. Unwillingness of the women’s organization to alter the law so that misuse of law can be stopped is evident. On the contrary, women organizations are planning to strengthen and increase the severity of the 498a law to curb dowry death, which is absolutely preposterous. One must not forget that the chunk of the GDP comes from the urban cities where these laws are prevalently misused. If the misuse of laws still continues then the social infrastructure will collapse which will have a direct unfavorable impact on the country’s economy. If the law can’t curb dowry deaths, can’t even stop misuse, then what is the use of such a law that causes millions of people to suffer ?
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